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Setting new year resolutions is about more than just creating goals—it’s about visualizing the person we want to become.   The New Year’s day may bring a surge of inspiration, but that magic quickly disappears: statistics show only 9% of people actually achieve their New Year goals, while the majority loses their motivation by February.   The reason is simple: achieving meaningful goals, especially life-changing ones, requires discipline, effort, and the willingness to make sacrifices. We experience real growth when we are willing to trade short-term comfort for long-term results.   The truth is, those 9% of people who achieve their goals for the New Year aren’t more special or capable than you. They’ve simply developed discipline and focus, both of which you’re capable of.   Don’t let 2025 be just another year. Make it the year you start turning your dreams into reality. You have all it takes.     New year resolutions ideas The most important New Year resolutions you can set are those that have the highest impact on your life. They can be related to physical and mental health, connections, financial health, achievements, and spiritual growth. Click here to learn the secret to staying motivated while pursuing your New Year resolutions.     Resolutions for physical health   Improve physical fitness Depending on your starting point, there’s many variations of this goal. But one thing is for sure: our physical health is the foundation of our mental health, which is the pillar of our satisfaction with life. Like any major goal, it takes effort, time, and discipline, but the rewards are worth it, and they’re necessary. Improving physical fitness not only enhances your overall health but also strengthens your self-esteem and self-respect. When you learn to take control of your body, you gain a sense of mastery over yourself, and that confidence carries into every other area of your life.   Eat healthier A major part of becoming physically healthy is caring what we put into our body. It’s unrealistic to expect you will never again eat some junk food, but adopting a mostly healthy eating regime is crucial for your health. Depending on our current diet, you most likely know what you need to cut out. Maybe it’s cutting down on processed foods, eating more greens and eating fewer carbs, or reducing sugar intake. Eating healthy is not just about being fit or protecting your overall health; it’s also a form of discipline. If we are easily manipulated by our cravings, we are so much more likely to fail in other temptations as well.   Quit an addiction There’s some habits that are so bad for our health that they have a special category. Smoking, drinking alcohol, social media, or even food and shopping are all very common addictions. These habits take away more than they give, so even considering quitting them is amazing! When contemplating, just remember the question, What kind of person do you want to be in the future? Visualize that person, and if this bad habit doesn’t align with who they are, make the commitment to change.  Addictions can be tough, so be patient. Start to slowly phase it out and seek help if necessary. Keep the vision of your goal in mind, and remember, you can do this if you really want to.       Resolutions for mental health   Create a healthy sleep routine Having good sleep hygiene is incredibly important for our overall health, but more significantly, it impacts our daily mental health and the ability to focus. If we do not ‘charge our batteries’ every night, our mind and body have no way to function properly.  Research shows that people who sleep less than 7 hours every day are more likely to have higher weight (33%), be physically inactive (27%), smokers (23%), and excessive alcohol drinkers (19%).   Start therapy There are so many good things we can do for our mental health, but there’s really no replacement for therapy. Especially if you went through some difficult situations in life, therapy is necessary. In the next year, consider giving it a chance and seeing how it works for you. Sometimes, having another, objective opinion can really help us understand ourselves better.   Practice self-love If your goal is to become more confident, secure, and happy in the next year, self-love practice is the way to do it. Self-love is about giving yourself the same care and attention you’d offer to someone you care about. It can mean practicing positive self-talk, taking me-time, practicing self-care, accepting yourself, or simply having conversations with yourself. The confidence and joy we get from self-love is incomparable with anything else and is something that no one can take away.   Spend more time outside  Being in nature is a necessity for our mental health, but our modern lives make it harder to make it our daily routine. Our human nature is to be outside; touch the grass, feel the sun, and enjoy the fresh air. Whenever possible, plan a hike or replace a weekend city walk with a walk in nature, even if the weather is not perfect.   Cut out negativity Negativity in our lives can exist in many forms, either in ourselves or in those around us. No matter the source, it’s crucial to recognize negative patterns and decide to distance yourself from them. Negativity often shows up in the form of complaining, ill-intended gossip, toxic relationships, or holding grudges.  If you engage with such energy or choose to foster it, it will just drain your energy. Avoid toxic people in the next year: you cannot help those who don’t want to help themselves, and you’re better off without them.   Decrease social media use Social media has become so pervasive that it warrants special attention among modern addictions. An average person spends 4 hours and 37 minutes looking at their phone every day, which sums up to 12 years during their lifespan! Take a moment to check your own screen time

Having self-esteem is essential for a happy and fulfilling life. Improving our self-worth and building confidence makes it easier to face challenges, form healthy relationships, and pursue goals. By focusing on ways to improve our self-esteem, we reclaim our power to live as our best, most authentic selves.   Why do we lack self-esteem? The most important step of every journey is the first step—understanding why we lack self-esteem.   Self-esteem or self-worth is a collection of beliefs, thoughts, and feelings we have about ourselves, while confidence is something we build on top of self-esteem that shows we trust ourselves.   So where do these negative beliefs and lack of self-trust come from? In most cases, lack of self-esteem stems from our early life.    Somewhere along the way, someone who is dealing with their own insecurities told us who we are is wrong, unimportant, or flawed in some way. Or, they compared us to someone they perceived as ‘better’, damaging our self-worth.   If a young person is continuously exposed to such influences, they can be significantly impacted and carry this wound into their adult life. If left unhealed, this wound can cause numerous obstacles and prevent us from reaching our potential. For this reason, the following strategies are vital to reclaiming control of your life.       Strategies to improve your self-esteem 1. Commit to the healing process Healing is a long-term goal, and while the process may take time, it’s worth the effort. To heal, you must address past traumas and allow yourself to feel the emotions you might’ve avoided.   Healing involves caring for your wounds. It means recognizing the thoughts, emotions, and triggers that reopen those wounds—and choosing to transform them into positive thoughts and feelings, using the power of your will.     2. Practice self-love You’ve likely heard the phrase, “The most important relationship we have is with ourselves.” When we lack self-worth, it means our relationship with ourselves is damaged or even toxic. It’s crucial to work on the negative aspects of our relationship and start loving yourself.   You can practice self-love by: practicing compassion when you make mistakes; practicing self-acceptance; committing to self-improvement; or simply taking time for self-care.     3. Become aware of negative thoughts Becoming aware of your subconscious mind is a crucial part of the healing process. Low self-esteem often leads to negative, accumulated beliefs and thoughts about ourselves. The key to overcoming this is to recognize these negative beliefs as separate from who you are and consciously replace them with thoughts that create self-love.   Focus on the positive aspects of yourself, even if they feel small at first. You can practice this by using affirmations, positive self-talk, cultivating gratitude, journaling, or other mindful practices. Also, through personal development, you can create new strengths and positive traits while working to minimize those you no longer identify with.     4. Practice Affirmations Affirmations are probably the most powerful and direct way to influence your subconscious mind. They are phrases we say out loud and feel, thus creating a reaction in our body. Similarly to how your mind believed negative things someone said, affirmations are positive self-talk that creates new, positive beliefs.    Affirmations are a tool for reprograming your mind, and they work quite fast when done regularly. An important thing to remember is to feel the affirmation. For example, if you say, “I love myself,” you have to try and really feel like this is true in your heart. Even if it’s not yet true, you’ll be surprised how quickly your mind will think of it as truth. Affirmations show how easily our mind is influenced.     5. Be grateful Life is difficult, but it’s much more difficult if we constantly focus on things we are not and things we don’t have. Believe it or not, with such an attitude, you can be a rich supermodel, and you’d still be unhappy.   Gratitude shifts our focus from lack towards abundance because there’s always something to be grateful for. Every day, try to find at least 3 things you are grateful for, even if they are very small. More importantly, try to feel the energy of gratitude, even if you have to fake it, similar to affirmations. Creating this energy will allow you to create it more naturally next time.   If you need, set a reminder each day and practice gratitude, either by writing down, saying out loud, or recording yourself.     6. Practice mindfulness There’s many ways to practice mindfulness, but it all comes down to being aware of your inner state. Whether it’s through meditation, yoga, or simple observation, practices like these make you look inside instead of outside, which changes your perspective.   Mindfulness is a great way to combat negative beliefs and thoughts, as it invites you to practice silence and stillness so that you can observe what’s happening in your mind. Our mind can often be our biggest enemy, and with mindfulness, we take control of it. Instead of reacting to everything it tells us, we detach from it and are able to recognize negative patterns more easily.         7. Learn from experts Knowledge is treasure, and regaining your self-esteem can be viewed as a project, so it’s necessary to keep learning about it. You can listen to one of many available resources online, whether in the form of video, audio, or reading materials.    When you can fully understand the problem, it will be much easier to deal with it. You will also be able to hear stories of people who found their ways to improve self-esteem. Believe it or not, most people have problems with self-esteem because most people met a few rotten fruits on their path. People who overcame their struggles are nothing more special than you; they simply committed to the process and didn’t stop. You are capable of overcoming this; just keep moving forward.       8.

Stress is a natural part of life, but it doesn’t have to control us. By incorporating simple practices into our daily routine, we can manage stress and reclaim our inner peace. Whether it’s through mindfulness, physical activity, deep breathing, or journaling, these practices offer quick and effective ways to reduce tension and restore balance. In moments of stress, these simple practices can help you feel grounded and in control, allowing you to face challenges with greater calm and resilience.